So just to articulate what the plan is - we are going to build one big house that all of us can live in. "All of us" is quite a bit - Sarah and I have three kids age 6, 4 and 2. Tom and Gretchen have two kids - 3 and 1. And both families are discussing having more. So it's a lot.
This week we had some fun discussions regarding the house plan. Next Friday Sarah is flying to Indianapolis to join Tom and Gretchen at our builder's office to try and develop a floor plan. So our back-and-forth culminated into a two-plus-hour conference call where we discussed what exactly we are looking for in a floor plan. It was actually pretty fun.
Some key tenets of our floor plan:
- We want to organize the family sleeping areas into two "pods" with family bedrooms close together. So we're talking about a master suite, two kid bedrooms, a bathroom and a sitting area for each family. We landed on a pretty good strategy - our family upstairs and their family in a "wing" on one side of the first floor. Tom suggested an approach where you would enter their wing through opague french doors into the sitting area then continue on to a hallway with the bedrooms. I think this will also help enable our exit strategy as this wing could easily be converted into a mother-in-law apartment of sorts.
- The kitchen is the most important room in the house. I think this is the room that we go a little wild in. We want something that isn't luxury for the sake of being luxury, but is a big, highly functional, semi-professional kitchen. I used words like "Sub-Zero" and "Wolf" and Sarah couldn't believe they were coming out of my mouth.
- We talked Tom out of one story.
- We're probably looking at 3,500+ square feet above ground and a 1,000+ sqft unfinished basement
- Two laundry areas, one upstairs and one on the first floor
- Large great room, large dining room, eat-in kitchen
- 3-car garage and a screened-in porch
- Also, I work from home, so we'll try to find a spot to stash a small home office. That "bonus room" above the garage is a possibility. I'm open to this and will be fine roughing a room in the basement if need be.
I think we can build a pretty functional home for the (gulp) nine of us. We were debating whether we add another room to the first floor but felt like the basement will give us plenty of room for expansion. Tom is all about the basement, and I think we might even push that to 1,500 sqft as it's cheap to build now and will give us potential for later. (I have my heart set on building a home gym down there)
I'm really excited to see what the other three come up with next Friday when they meet with the builder. I think a floor plan will make this feel that much closer to real.